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    I love photographing people and events. I love telling stories with pictures. I love watching people and capturing emotions and feelings in an image. I love to have fun. And Laugh. And be silly.

    I am an endless wanderer and my middle name means 'bringer of light' so I try to do that wherever I go! I lived overseas for three years doing humanitarian photojournalism, which was a dream come true. I am now back in the U.S. establishing roots and figuring life out.

Remembering September 11th, 2001

I was in New York City – here’s my story…

April 14, 2001 – My brothers, Charles and Russ, came to visit me in New York City.  I toured them around the city and of course, took the twins to the twin towers.  I took them up to the top to check out the view from the restaurant ‘Windows on the World’.  Below are a few photos from their visit.

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Below: Me with my twin brothers, Charles (left) & Russ (right)  (yes, I was blond)

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Below: At the Windows on the World – a view of the Statue of Liberty through the windows.

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Below: A view of the Brooklyn Bridge

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Below:  Charles and Russ at the Windows on the World WTC

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September 6th, 2001 – My mom was in town visiting me (going to college at FIT in New York City) and my grandparents (who live in New Jersey).  My mom and I took a Circle Line Boat tour that day around the island of Manhattan to sight see.

Below: a photo of the twin towers that I took from the boat.
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September 11, 2001 – early in the morning I left my apartment in Guttenberg, NJ on a bus headed for Times Square/Port Authority.  I was going to college at the Fashion Institute of Technology located on 27th and Seventh Avenue in Manhattan, and I had a class at 9:00 am.

8:46am the first plane hits the North Tower WTC.  My brother, in Wisconsin, happened to be watching the news and so he immediately called my cell phone.  At that moment, I was on the bus going through the Lincoln Tunnel so I didn’t get cell phone service.  I had no idea what was happening.  Once I got off the bus on 42nd Street I rushed underground to the subway to catch a train to 27th Street.  I remember passing a lot of people that were pointing south towards something (the WTC) but being a ‘seasoned New Yorker’, I dismissed them as tourists, didn’t look up, and continued rushing on my way.

9:00am I arrive at my class and we are missing our professor.

9:03am the second plane hits the South Tower WTC.

9:05am our Professor arrives who has just come from the school’s media room and informs us that a plane has hit the twin towers.  No one seemed to think it was a big deal.  But then several students begin receiving cell phone calls from worried parents.  A few of us leave the room to go to a classroom next door that has the news coverage on.  Terror strikes me and immediately I know this not OK.  All I could think and say was “those people need to get out of those buildings… they are going to collapse…”  We all just sat and watched in disbelief.

9:21am All bridges and tunnels into Manhattan are closed.

9:37am An airplane crashes into the Pentagon.

9:58am The South Tower WTC falls.  10:28am The North Tower WTC falls.  We watch in horror.  Cell phone lines are jammed.  I am able to reach my mom, who is currently at my grandparents house in New Jersey via a landline at the school.  I let her know I am OK.  She informs me that all the bridges and tunnels have been shut down so there is no way for me to leave the City.

11:00am All classrooms at the school are closed.  All students are shuffled into the auditorium where the live news is being projected onto the screen.  I felt so alone and so afraid.  I didn’t know what to do or where to go.

11:30am I decide I can’t stay there any longer.  My old apartment is a block away and I take the chance that some of my roommates are maybe at home.  I am wearing 3 inch high heels.  I get to the apartment on 28th and Sixth Avenue and thankfully, they are there.  We all sit nervously watching the news.  I’m even more freaked out now because no one knows if there will be more attacks.  The apartment is only about 5 blocks from the Empire State Building which we hear has also just been evacuated.  At this point, I am just really wanting to get off the island of Manhattan to somewhere ‘safer’.  One of my friends from school, Susan, also shows up at the apartment seeking refuge.  We watch out the windows facing Sixth Avenue as thousands of people walk northwards.  There is an eerie silence – no buses, no cars, no horns…  Susan is also trying to get back to New Jersey so she and I decide to venture out together to try to find a way home.  We hear rumors that some of the dinner cruise boats are taxiing people across the Hudson River.  We walk west to Chelsea Piers where we find thousands of people waiting in line to try to get across the river.  It’s hot.  People are handing out bottles of water.  The mood was fairly calm and I was honestly kind of surprised to find how orderly the lines were with no formal organizing.  People were talking to each other, which is not normal in NYC.  After several hours, Susan and I make it onto a dinner cruise boat.  Sitting next to us is a man covered in dust (from the collapsing of the WTC) with an injured leg.  We talk with him about what he saw and what he experienced.  It was intense.

Once we arrive to the Jersey side of the Hudson River we are left to fend for ourselves.  So, I walk almost two miles to where my apartment is, and at this point I’m barefoot.   I am grateful to be home safe. I spend the rest of the week glued to the TV trying to process everything, afraid to leave my apartment.  I did venture out the next day to walk along the river and took these photos of the Southern tip of Manhattan.

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I wish I would’ve taken more pictures during all of this.  But I remind myself this was before digital cameras, smart phones and twitter.   I wish that I would’ve written a journal when all of this happened to remember more.  But – today – 12 years later – here is what I still hold onto from this whole experience.

There were a lot of brave, selfless people that lost their lives that day trying to help other people.  Those men and women inspire me.  In the days, weeks and months following there were a lot of people that poured themselves out day and night helping at Ground Zero.  I felt like the whole event softened New Yorkers and made us a little bit warmer, a little more loving.   1 Peter 4:8   “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”  I love the lyrics from Alan Jackson’s song about September 11th –  “Faith, hope and love are some good things He gave us, and the greatest is love.”

I remember that I am not promised today.  I am not promised tomorrow.  I am entitled to nothing.  And that ultimately, my safety and my peace are in Christ.  John 14:27 “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

You can read the full timeline from September 11th on Wikipedia here of the morning.

Here’s the video of Alan Jackson singing his song live

You’re all I want, all I need, you’re everything.

I’m currently reading the book ‘The Pursuit of God’ by A.W. Tozer.  The kindle version is free right now on Amazon.  It’a short book, but wow, it takes me into deep waters with God and my walk with Him.  I came across his prayer at the end of section IV of the book and here’s what he writes:  “O God, quicken to life every power within me, that I may lay hold on eternal things.  Open my eyes that I may see; give me acute spiritual perception; enable me to taste Thee and know that Thou art good.  Make heaven more real to me than any earthly thing has ever been.”  I mean, wow.  I love that.

I’m also reading a book by John Eldredge called ‘Walking with God’ and the chapters I just read are about unmet longings and things that God withholds (pages 181-188)… which for me, just brings my heart right back to being totally filled up by God.  There are plenty of things here on earth that I long for, that I desire – but I know (even though I may not always ‘feel it’) that nothing will ever truly satisfy me the way that God can – and ultimately, I will never truly be satisfied or ‘full’ until I am with the Lord.  We weren’t meant to feel satisfied here.  This world was never meant to truly fill us up.  It can’t.  No thing or person will ever be able to meet those deep desires in my heart.  And so… what do I do with these longings, these desires?  I’m tempted to ignore them.  To sweep them under the carpet.  To even numb these parts of my heart so that I just don’t feel anymore.  But I love what Eldredge says on page 188

“But to send your heart into exile because your longings have no hope of being met is also to exile your heart from the love of God.  And he would have your whole heart.  It’s hard to tell whether God is arousing some desire so that you may seek a new life or simply so that this part of your heart may be made whole in him.  But whatever else may be the case, you have to begin by giving this part of your heart back to God.  Above all else, your heart must find a safe home in him.”

I find that these two themes go together.  Desires & unmet longings remind me that earthly things cannot satisfy me and this gives me a continual opportunity to fix my eyes on what will truly fulfill me:  God and heaven.  This all reminded me of a few songs that I love that help my heart to connect and also a few scriptures – all below.

Luke 10:27  “He answered, ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’…”

1 Peter 2:2-3   “Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation, now that you have tasted that the Lord is good.”

Psalm 84:10 Better is one day in your courts than a thousand elsewhere;  I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God than dwell in the tents of the wicked. 

Psalm 42:1-2  “As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, my God.  My soul thirsts for God, for the living God.  When can I go and meet with God?”

Genesis 15:1 “After this, the word of the Lord came to Abram in a vision:  “Do not be afraid, Abram.  I am your shield, your very great reward.”

DID YOU READ THAT LAST SCRIPTURE?  Read it again, out loud. GOD IS YOUR VERY GREAT REWARD.  Just God.  How do you feel about that?  Think about your deepest desires, the things that you long for… I know for me God can often come second or third to other desires I have.  But – only he can truly satisfy the longings and desires of my heart.  God is the reward.  Not anything else in this life.  Not money, not your job, not your family, or your children, or your spouse, or love, or your house, or success, or happiness or whatever else you want to fill in the blank… what are you chasing after?  Pray that it will be God.  Pray that He will become your great reward.  Pray to know Him deeper and to fall in love with Him so that all those scriptures above can be true for you as you read them.  He wants to answer prayers like that.  He longs for us to be filled up with Him, and Him alone.

And I’ll close out with one of my favorite songs by Lifehouse, ‘Everything’.  I love the lyrics.  And I love this video of a drama acted out to this song – I get emotional every time I watch it and I’ve seen it A LOT.  But it reminds me of how easily my heart can be pulled away by things here on earth… things that I can see.  It challenges me to the core that I continue to taste that the Lord is good and to seek to be filled up by him and him alone.

Here are the lyrics to the song ‘Everything’ by Lifehouse:

Find me here, and speak to me
I want to feel you, I need to hear you
You are the light that’s leading me to the place
Where I find peace again
You are the strength that keeps me walking
You are the hope that keeps me trusting
You are the life to my soul
You are my purpose
You’re everything
And how can I stand here with you
And not be moved by you
Would you tell me how could it be any better than this?

You calm the storms and you give me rest
You hold me in your hands
You won’t let me fall
You steal my heart and you take my breath away
Would you take me in, take me deeper now
And how can I stand here with you and not be moved by you
Would you tell me how could it be any better than this
And how can I stand here with you and not be moved by you
Would you tell me how could it be any better than this

Cause you’re all I want, you’re all I need
You’re everything, everything
You’re all I want
You’re all I need
You’re everything, everything
You’re all I want
You’re all I need
You’re everything, everything
You’re all I want
You’re all I need
Everything, everything

And how can I stand here with you and not be moved by you
Would you tell me how could it be any better than this
And how can I stand here with you and not be moved by you
Would you tell me how could it be any better-any better than this
And how can I stand here with you and not be moved by you
Would you tell me how could it be any better than this
Would you tell me how could it be any better than this

 

September 11, 2013 - 7:09 pm

shannon griz - “But to send your heart into exile because your longings have no hope of being met is also to exile your heart from the love of God. And he would have your whole heart. It’s hard to tell whether God is arousing some desire so that you may seek a new life or simply so that this part of your heart may be made whole in him. But whatever else may be the case, you have to begin by giving this part of your heart back to God. Above all else, your heart must find a safe home in him.”

Wow, this spoke so strongly to me as did the Tozer quote.

Awesome stuff Vanessa!

Rawacala Adventure

On Sunday afternoon, a bunch of friends and I took a road trip to Rawacala in Honduras – just outside the city of San Pedro Sula. We had a blast swimming and cooling off for the afternoon in the waterfall.  I brought my gopro camera along and tried to capture little bits of fun from the day – Such a great time!  (The canopy was closed for maintenance, so we’ll just have to do that another time!)  Here’s the video I put together  (music:  ‘Wake me up’ by Avicii)

What’s in my bag – stories from an endless wanderer

I travel a lot.  I love it.  I thought I’d share some tips and thoughts on how I travel…

Item you pack to remind you of home:  I have a Boston Red Sox baseball cap that I take everywhere I go – it’s old and dirty and faded but I love it.  (this photo is not of my actual hat)

Strangest item ever packed:  I packed a six pack of Wisconsin brewed Leinenkugals beer to bring to friends on the East Coast because at that time, it wasn’t available for purchase there – and it’s awesome.  And I brought a couple bags of Wisconsin cheese curds along too.

Last souvenir purchase:  I don’t collect anything because I don’t like accumulating stuff.  But I love picking up things for family or friends that do.  I always pick up a fridge magnet for my brother who collects them.  And one of my best friends collects Starbucks city mugs so I bought one for her.  

In-flight reading:  Because I live in Honduras I’m totally out of touch with what’s actually going on in the world – which I don’t mind.  But I love picking up a magazine at the newsstand to flip through and read on the plane – WIREDInc., Fast Company, Real Simple  or Woman’s Day are some of my favorites (I don’t read fashion magazines or gossip mags – I’ll write a blog post about that one day).  I also always have a book  (or three) with me because I love to read. I’m currently reading a bunch of books and it depends on my mood which one I’ll grab.  ‘Dad is Fat’ by comedian Jim Gaffigan  – it’s hilarious and a light, easy read.  ‘Walking with God’ by John Eldredge  – it’s spiritual, deep and I can read it in short or long snippets.  ‘The Pursuit of God’ by A.W. Tozer  – it’s spiritual and deep too, and for me, it’s a little bit more difficult to read because of how it’s written, so it takes a little bit more concentration and focus – but it really takes me into deep waters with God and in my heart and I love it (and the kindle edition is free right now on amazon!).

In-flight snacking: I always keep a bottle of water with me and try to stay hydrated.  I also take a long a granola bar and a small bag of M&Ms  just in case I get really hungry or have a chocolate craving.  

Carryon of choice:  I have a Samsonite roller carryon and the wheels go in 4 directions so it really makes it effortless (buy it way cheaper at TJ Maxx or Marshalls)  – I carry all of my heavy camera gear in this.  

I also love my Nicole Miller laptop bag (that I scored at a Ross for a ridiculously cheap price) to carry my computer and all of my important documents. It looks kind of like this Adrienne Vittadini bag – but it’s lime green.

Travel uniform / what I wear:  My favorite skinny jeans with stretch , a dressy but comfortable top  with a cardigan and a pashmina scarf (which doubles as a blanket if I need it) – and Toms shoes – and my bangs in hair clip.


Favorite airport:  I was totally impressed with the airport in Detroit – I was there for the first time on a layover and was amazed at how new & modern it feels, dare I say it’s ‘pretty’, it’s efficient and there are tons of fun stores for shopping and restaurants for eating.  And I was UBER impressed that the Westin hotel is directly connected to the airport with it’s own security checkpoint even – so if you were say, to get stranded at the airport – you can walk straight into the hotel and get a good night’s sleep.  Brilliant.

In-flight listening:  Spotify  (offline) – I’m obsessed with spotify and I have a ton of playlists for different moods.  The playlist that gets the most use is probably my ‘christian worship music’ playlist.  It’s chill and relaxing for an early morning or late night flight when I want to doze off and catch some z’s.  But, if it’s mid-day and I want to get some work done and I had to pick an album – I’d totally go for Imagine Dragons.

Personal care essentials:  A must have for me when I’m traveling is a small travel sized hand cream because I can’t stand my hands feeling dry.  I also love the convenience of disposable face wash wipes to wash my face and I can’t live without my pressed mineral veil compact by Bare Minerals  to get rid of any shine on my face.  Oh, and I always have a tube of Chapstick with me too!

If you have any great travel tips or essentials, please share them with me!  And as always, thanks for stopping by my blog!

September 2, 2013 - 5:18 pm

Bethany Cox - Nice post! I liked reading it and being reminded of you coming to VISIT!!

Choosing what is better…

I sat down this morning to spend time with God and I was distracted, agitated, unfocused and to be honest, I just didn’t really want to do it.  I have a list of a thousand things that I needed to get done today and I wanted to start checking things off the list and ‘feel productive.’

I know that it’s good to read my bible and to spend time with God.  I know that it will bring me peace.  But man, sometimes it’s hard.  I’m selfish.  I tell myself “I’ll do it later”.  I choose to do all sorts of things over just spending time in communion with God.  Over what really matters.  I am MARTHA.  And I want to be Mary.  I want to just come and sit at my masters feet and drink him in.

At the Home of Martha and Mary
Luke 10:38-42  “As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”
“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one.  Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”

My heart aches this morning and I’m not sure why.  Maybe it’s a longing for my Lord.  Maybe it’s because I know I choose the wrong things throughout the day… day after day… instead of choosing what is better… and what will not be taken away from me.  I busy myself all day long with lots of things – Facebook, the internet – work – making food, eating food, running errands, taking care of loose ends – planning for my next trip – planning this weekend – studying spanish – educating myself in the list of things I want to learn – even spending time trying to look pretty, or younger, or… well, fill in the blank.  And while all of these things aren’t necessarily bad things… how easy it is for them to control my life and for me to not choose the one thing that really matters, what is better… and what cannot be taken from me.

Mary simply sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said.  I’m guessing that she loved spending time with him. That perhaps the words in Psalm 42:1-2 described how Mary felt about being with Jesus.

“As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, my God.  My soul thirsts for God, for the living God.  When can I go and meet with God?”  

I WANT to feel like that… but to be honest, most days I don’t. From the moment I wake up in the morning things are pulling at me.  My brain is racing with all that I need to do, want to do and should be doing.  As I’m eating breakfast I’m bombarded with thoughts ranging from ‘I need to workout today.  When am I going to do that?’  to ‘Practice spanish, you have to practice spanish.  And stop at the printer to get the photos printed.  And  update your website too.’  Most days I feel like a hamster running on one of those metal wheels… going nowhere but working awfully hard.  Sometimes I am just overwhelmed with all that I need to do that I don’t do anything and instead open up Facebook or instagram and look for interesting things to pacify me.

And then I’m reminded of Mary and Martha.  And I’m totally being like Martha – but I want to be like Mary.  I want to just sit at Jesus’ feet and quench my thirst for truth and meaning and purpose.  To be filled with what really matters… and with what cannot be taken from me.

I am also reminded of the parable of the sower  (Mark 4:1-20)… one of my favorite parables – maybe because it cuts me to the heart, every time I read it.  I can read through the beginning when he’s talking about all the different soils and think – oh, well for sure I want to be the good soil… I AM the good soil (verse 8).  And I DO want to be the good soil… but I think when I’m really honest with myself… my temptation and my nature is to be the soil with the thorns (verse 7)  especially when Jesus describes it in verses 18-19:
“Still others, like seed sown among thorns, hear the word; but the worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful.”

Stop and think about that.  The worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful…  for me – I would say that my biggest struggle every day is just battling the worries of this life and my desires for other things… that right there is enough to ruin my walk with God – enough to choke out the word… enough to take my eyes off of Him.  Isn’t that the difference between Mary and Martha?  Yes, things need to get done in our lives on daily basis.  Yes, we need to work and do stuff.  But every day I have a choice in where I get ‘filled up’… a choice in where my eyes are fixed and the perspective that that frames for my life.  When I choose to sit at Jesus’ feet and be filled up – it really is so much better than anything I could fill up with in this world.  And when I’m spiritually filled up – that is something that cannot be taken from me.

And so, there are days that are easier than others to come and sit at my Lord’s feet.  Some days I open my bible eagerly to listen to what he has to say.  Some days I put it off and choose other things thinking they are more important.  Some days I have to deny myself and force myself to open up my bible and spend time with God because I know it will be good for me and I need it…even though I don’t ‘feel’ like it  (it’s kind of like how I feel about exercising).  But in the end – I am always better off for having spent time being filled up by what truly matters, what is better and what cannot be taken from me.

Luke 10:27
‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’  

Psalm 37:4
Take delight in the Lord,“  and he will give you the desires of your heart.

Psalm 42:1-2, 11

“As the deer pants for streams of water,
    so my soul pants for you, my God.
My soul thirsts for God, for the living God.
    When can I go and meet with God?
Why, my soul, are you downcast?
    Why so disturbed within me?
Put your hope in God,
    for I will yet praise him,
    my Savior and my God.”

Psalm 84:1-2, 10
“How lovely is your dwelling place,
    Lord Almighty!
My soul yearns, even faints,
    for the courts of the Lord;
my heart and my flesh cry out
    for the living God.
Better is one day in your courts
    than a thousand elsewhere;
I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God
    than dwell in the tents of the wicked.”

August 29, 2013 - 9:59 pm

erica - Miss you!!!

August 30, 2013 - 5:01 am

Vanessa Embling - Miss you too Erica! Thanks for stopping by my blog! 🙂