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    I love photographing people and events. I love telling stories with pictures. I love watching people and capturing emotions and feelings in an image. I love to have fun. And Laugh. And be silly.

    I am an endless wanderer and my middle name means 'bringer of light' so I try to do that wherever I go! I lived overseas for three years doing humanitarian photojournalism, which was a dream come true. I am now back in the U.S. establishing roots and figuring life out.

Christmas Cards

Just thought I’d share the Christmas Cards I have done the last few years – people seem to get a kick out of them!

2016 Christmas Card

I sent this out not long after I had returned to the US after living overseas for 3 years – not many people really knew what was going on with me…

2017 Christmas Card

Still single, everyone was anticipating my Christmas Card.  This was my play on the ‘family photo’.  Some people thought I actually was a quintuplet!

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2018 Christmas Card

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2019 Christmas Card

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2020 Christmas Card

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2021 Christmas Card

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Budget beauty finds

I’m always looking for ways to save money. Here are some of my fave budget beauty finds:

Eye makeup remover – Johnson’s baby oil (travel size) $0.99! I put some on some toilet paper and gently take off my eye makeup (including my water proof mascara).


All day wear matte lipstick and lip liner – NYX – Lipstick $4-$6; Lipliner $2-$3! You can buy it at CVS or Ulta or online. If I want to try a fun seasonal color out, I’ll buy it in this brand because it’s not a big investment. This one is probably better in the Spring/Summer when your lips aren’t super dry. I really hate paying a lot for lipstick or lip liners.


Waterproof mascara – I have tried so many others (from cheap to expensive and I keep going back to this) L’oreal Voluminous Waterproof mascara in carbon black $7.99.

Zinc Face Sunscreen $10.99 – I have melasma and get sun spots if my face is exposed to the sun AT ALL. So, I’m pretty diligent about applying this to my face every day before putting my makeup on – and if I’m headed to the beach or doing anything outside for an extended period of time, I wear a hat.

Makeup Brush Cleaner – Dawn Dish Soap $1.00!!!! I was buying brush cleaner from Sephora for like $15 and it didn’t work that great. I randomly tried using Dawn dish soap and it works AMAZINGLY! Seriously, it works so much faster and better. I clean my makeup brushes about once a week.

A while back I switched from Neutrogena Face Wipes to washcloths. It’s cheaper and less wasteful. I bought a 24 pack of white washcloths from Costco for $11.99! (they are soft and good quality) and I use that to take my makeup off. Yep, white washcloths. I hate bending over the sink and splashing my face with water because its messy and water gets everywhere, so this has been a great work around. I soak the washcloth with really hot water and then just press it on my face for 30 seconds and then wipe all of my makeup off. When I get down to the bottom of my pile of clean washcloths, I throw them all in the wash with other white laundry in hot water with some detergent, some oxiclean and every 3rd wash maybe some vinegar or bleach and they come out looking new. Crazy!

Comment below if you try any of these or if you have any great budget beauty hack ideas!

In the kitchen – pots and pans recommendation

I am not an expert by any means. But, I recently replaced my old pots and pans with new ones and did quite a bit of research before settling on what to buy. Just wanted to share what I found for anyone else who might find themselves in that position and doesn’t feel like digging through articles and reviews.

My requirements… I didn’t want to spend a ton of money but I didn’t want to just get a cheap set. I figure, if I can get 5-10 years (or more?) out of my pots and pans, that’s awesome but I’m not expecting them to last forever (so I don’t want to pay a TON of money for them). I wanted them to be easy to clean so that’s why I decided on non-stick. I wanted them to be durable and distribute heat evenly. I have an electric glass top stove so that also was a factor (if you have a gas stove you may want something else). I wanted them to still look nice after years of wear (so that’s why I went with dark grey over a color).

Best nonstick skillets:  OXO Good Grips (I bought the 8″ and the 12″)  $27 and $40 respectively. I happened to catch them on sale and got both for $50 total.
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Best cast iron skillet: Lodge – I use this for cooking burgers or anything on high heat that I want ‘blackened’ (which saves me from ruining my nonstick skillets). I bought the silicon cover that goes on handle (lifesaver) Both on amazon HERE 10″ pan is $19.00
Link to article on America’s Test Kitchen

Pots … I bought individual pieces of the Calphalon Contemporary Hard-Anodized Aluminum Nonstick Cookware.  I read a lot of articles and reviews and settled on these pots.  I knew I wanted non-stick because it’s just easier to clean.  I know people usually have strong opinions one way or the other. 

I found all of my pots on sale (a couple on Williams Sonoma) and then a couple of the pots I bought at Home Sense/Home Goods/TJ Maxx for like 60-70% off! I just kept looking every time I went to a store.  I didn’t buy a ‘set’ because I didn’t need ALL those pieces and I have limited storage.  There were five specific pieces I was looking for (the 1 1/2- and 2 1/2-Quart Sauce Pans With Lids, the 8-Quart Stock Pot With Lid, 13″ deep skillet with cover, and the 3.5-quart pour and strain sauce pan)

The Analon brand set also got a lot of good reviews.  

I read a lot of reviews on how best to care for the nonstick pots/pans and some things I knew but some things were new to me… 
-don’t use non stick spray on them (those nonstick sprays have a residue that they leave behind on pans) 
-buy your own pump spray can if you want to spray oil ($10 on amazon)


-use cold pressed avocado oil (Costco sells it for the best price – or Walmart) it’s got a high heat point (vs. olive oil that has a low heat point and goes rancid beyond a certain temp) Great article on that HERE


-use silicone cooking utensils (so you don’t scratch the pans)
-let your pots and pans cool down to room temp before washing them or submerging them in water (if you do it when they are still hot this will wreck them…they warp or it will ruin the finish)
-I don’t put my pots and pans in the dishwasher (basically exposing them to extreme temps will shorten their lifespan)
-use a non-abrasive sponge to clean them

What about you? Do you have pots and pans you love? Or don’t love? What advice would you give based on your experience?

Cheap weekend getaway to Copacabana

Copacabana is a small, enchanting town set on the southern shore of Lake Titicaca.  It’s about a 3.5 hour bus ride from La Paz, Bolivia and it’s a cheap weekend getaway.  The bus ride costs 20 bolivianos (about $3 US dollars).  There are two red stars on the map below – one marks Copacabana and the other is the point we visited on the Isla del Sol (a 2 hour boat ride from the port of Copacabana).  The whole weekend trip (including transportation to and from La Paz, a place to stay, really good food and an all day excursion ) cost less than $50.00 US dollars.

lake titcaca copacabana mapOnce we arrived in Copacabana, we found a hostel and dropped our bags.  We stayed at the Hostal Colonial for 50 bolivianos (about $7 US dollars) /per person per night – it was bare bones but totally fine (clean rooms, central location, hot showers and breakfast was included).  All of the nice places were booked – but if I were to go back I would book a room at Las Olas or La Cupula = totally worth it. Below: a photo of the outside of our hostelVEmbling_140427_4040Below:  Lisa and I shared a room – it was spacious and comfy enough.VEmbling_140427_4033As we walked down to towards the beach, there are plenty of little tourist shops to pick up an alpaca wool sweater, or some warm gloves and hat.  It’s such a cute, quaint little town.VEmbling_140425_3708VEmbling_140425_3710Below:  The iconic ‘anchor’ on the beach.  Reminds me of the song “Anchor for the Soul”…VEmbling_140425_3716Below:  We sat and watched the sunset from the beach – it was beautiful and peaceful as the mountains of Peru glowed off in the distance.VEmbling_140425_3715Copacabana Sunset, lake titicaca, boliviaSunset, Copacabana, Lake Titicaca, BoliviaAfterwards, we hit up La Orilla Restaurant for some stuffed trucha (trout).  It’s a cute little hole-in-the-wall place.  The food was OK… the service was horrible… but we had fun nonetheless. The next morning we headed down to the beach to jump on our boat for an all day excursion for 30 bs (about $3.00 US dollars).  The boat left at 8:30am for a two hour boat ride out to the northern tip of the Isla del Sol.VEmbling_140426_3735VEmbling_140426_3736VEmbling_140426_3738VEmbling_140426_3739I was nervous about getting sea sick and I didn’t have any dramamine but I kept reminding myself and everyone around me to keep your eyes on the horizon!  Unfortunately, a few of the people we met on the boat ride out there got sick – and I was afraid it was going to be ‘contagious’ cause you know how that can be… but – we finally made it to dry land!VEmbling_140426_3742VEmbling_140426_3743VEmbling_140426_3746VEmbling_140426_3749VEmbling_140426_3751We of course made some friends on the boat (one of my favorite things about traveling is all the cool people I get to meet along the way!).  So we all stuck together and hit the trail for an adventure on the Isla del Sol!VEmbling_140426_3752VEmbling_140426_3753VEmbling_140426_3754VEmbling_140426_3755VEmbling_140426_3756Isla del sol beachVEmbling_140426_3764VEmbling_140426_3766As we walked towards the beach… we saw a group of people gathered… and then I saw that a cow was on the ground so I yelled to everyone, “hey! I think a cow is giving birth!  You guys want to go and watch it?!VEmbling_140426_3771Well, it turns out… they were actually slaughtering the cow – and all of these little kids were gathered around watching it.  That was definitely an “Only in Bolivia” moment.VEmbling_140426_3775And so… with that… we continued walking!VEmbling_140426_3779VEmbling_140426_3782VEmbling_140426_3783VEmbling_140426_3786Below:  Me, Matt and LisaVEmbling_140426_3790VEmbling_140426_3792VEmbling_140426_3794VEmbling_140426_3803Below:  There are over 80 ruins on the island. Most of these date to the Inca period circa the 15th century AD. Archaeologists have discovered evidence that people lived on the island as far back as the third millennium BCE. Many hills on the island contain agricultural terraces, which adapt steep and rocky terrain to agriculture. Among the ruins on the island are the Sacred Rock, a labyrinth-like building called Chinkana, Kasa Pata, and Pilco Kaima. In the religion of the Incas, it was believed that the sun god was born here. (info from Wikipedia)VEmbling_140426_3804Below:  Making friends with donkeys along the way.  VEmbling_140426_3805VEmbling_140426_3812Below:  Several times along the hike we literally had to push donkeys out of our way because they were blocking the trail.  I was so scared I was going to get kicked!!  VEmbling_140426_3810Below:  Wow, what a view!! VEmbling_140426_3814Below:  What the photos can’t convey is how amazingly crisp, clean and fresh the air was.  It was so amazing and I didn’t want to leave.  I loved just hiking along the trail, feeling the cool breeze on my face, the hot sun on my back and the cleanest air ever in my lungs while taking in these spectacular breathtaking views.  I just kept thinking… “most of the world will never get to see or experience this in their lifetime… I feel so blessed and so grateful.”VEmbling_140426_3815VEmbling_140426_3820Below:  We searched all over for the inca site “The Sacred Rock” (there are theories that it was used as an execution block for those convicted of wrongdoing) – and after a much longer than necessary detour… we found it (no signs, no trail markers… nothing… we only found it because we asked a 10 year old girl who was selling jewelry along the trail if she could show us).  And so here we are… at the Sacred Rock… Lisa, sitting on top of it – which I feel like totally contradicts the fact that it’s ‘sacred’!VEmbling_140426_3829Below:  Brett discovered another ancient ruin right next to the rock… an old wheel chair.  #Amazing.VEmbling_140426_3826VEmbling_140426_3835Below:  All of the houses are built out of adobe bricks (straw and clay) which hardens in the sun.  They are pretty remarkable and resourceful!  VEmbling_140426_3836VEmbling_140426_3839VEmbling_140426_3842VEmbling_140426_3844VEmbling_140426_3845VEmbling_140426_3846VEmbling_140426_3847VEmbling_140426_3848Below:  We made it to one of the beautiful lookout points… and I really could’ve stayed here all day.  There were some other backpackers that were playing guitar and singing.  It was amazing.  I want to go back and take more time hiking the trail and just soaking it all in.  VEmbling_140426_3850VEmbling_140426_3851VEmbling_140426_3852Below:  Matt, Lisa and I with all of our new friends!  (Left to right: Julia, Matt, Brett, Lisa, Me, Maria & Samantha)VEmbling_140426_3854VEmbling_140426_3859VEmbling_140426_3866Below: We continued further down the trail to the other major inca ruin sites… VEmbling_140426_3867Below:  By this time, we were running out of time because we needed to make it back to the beach to catch our boat back… so it was pretty rushed.  Which just gives me another reason to return!  VEmbling_140426_3868VEmbling_140426_3871Below:  Mesa Ceremónica (Ceremonial Table) – it’s thought to have been the site of human and animal sacrifices… VEmbling_140426_3875VEmbling_140426_3878Below:  Our time was up so we had to hustle back to the beach to catch the boat.  On the way back, we passed by the beach again and the men had proudly butchered the cow and were enjoying a fresh beef stew… WOW!  I’m not sure how sanitary it all was… but they clearly had a system and they use every single piece of the cow for something!VEmbling_140426_3890VEmbling_140426_3892We were back on the boat – this time sitting on the rooftop so as to avoid getting sea-sick but also to enjoy the beautiful weather!  We made more new friends – this group was from Santa Cruz, Bolivia.VEmbling_140426_3899VEmbling_140426_3895VEmbling_140426_3893VEmbling_140426_3904VEmbling_140426_3905Below:  We then stopped at one of the Islas Flotantes (or floating islands) where we got to enjoy some freshly caught trout or trucha frita – it was yummy!  But here’s the deal.. the floating island we stopped at wasn’t ‘legit’ – it was really just a dock covered with straw.  The ACTUAL islas flotantes are pretty cool but to visit it’s a whole day trip… but here’s the story behind them:  The floating islands are man-made islands made with reeds sprouting from the lake bottom.  The construction of these islands is weaving reeds in areas where it grows thickly, forming a natural layer that called aurochs Khili ; on this layer called the reed mat, they build their houses. Each house is one room and they cook outdoors to prevent fires…VEmbling_140426_3915VEmbling_140426_3917VEmbling_140426_3918Below:  After our yummy late lunch, we headed back to Copacabana.VEmbling_140426_3928VEmbling_140426_3930Below:  This is the flower that supposedly was the inspiration for the Bolivian FlagVEmbling_140426_3931Below:  It was nearing sunset so we headed up the giant hill – Mt. Calvario (or Mt. Calvary) – after hiking all day… I thought Matt was going to have to carry me up the mountain… it was a LONG hike!!VEmbling_140426_3932We stopped at La Cupula and Las Olas (both hostel/hotels that I highly recommend to stay – they were full for the weekend we were there but when I go back I’m totally staying here!)  They are nestled into the side of the mountain and the properties are scattered with hammocks and cozy little spots to just chill and soak in the beautiful scenery.  La Cupula also has a fabulous restaurant that we made dinner reservations for that night (highly recommend making reservations because it’s a small place and it books up).  VEmbling_140426_3933VEmbling_140426_3935Nearing the top of the mountain… VEmbling_140426_3939But by this point… I felt like my body was going to shut down and my legs were no longer going to work.  Lisa felt the same 🙂  VEmbling_140426_3940But finally, we made it to the top… and it was SOOOO worth it!!!VEmbling_140426_3943Also at the top of the mountain…VEmbling_140426_3947Below:  My new favorite spot… I really loved the view from here and it was so peaceful and relaxing watching the sunset…VEmbling_140426_4004-EditThe view of the Church… VEmbling_140426_3967The next day we stopped by the church before we jumped on the bus back to La Paz…VEmbling_140427_4034VEmbling_140427_4038And then 3.5 hours later we were back in La Paz and it was a spectacularly sunny day with barely any clouds in the sky… and a clear view of Mt. 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Being honest about who I am really seeking to glorify with my life…

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“Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” James 4:14

I love the drama of these photos and how they capture the scripture in James. I will forever remember when Steven Leslie Johnson preached at the Arts and Entertainment Conference in Atlanta in 2009 and talked about this.  I’ve been thinking about it a lot recently.

One of my deepest desires is to make a difference in the lives of those around me while I’m on this earth. But I guess I have come to realize over the years – that it’s really not about me and my life specifically… and it’s a lot more about God and the bigger picture. For a while, I was obsessed with the song “I was here” by Beyonce… some of the lyrics: “I wanna leave my footprints on the sands of time – Know there was something that meant something that I left behind – When I leave this world, I’ll leave no regrets – Leave something to remember, so they won’t forget – I was here – I lived, I loved – I was here – I did, I’ve done everything that I wanted – And it was more than I thought it would be – I will leave my mark so everyone will know – I was here…”

I think there is an aspect of the message of that song that we probably can all identify with. We want to leave a legacy. We want our lives to count. We want our time here to have meant something. And I think those are good things. But again, I’m realizing that… well… it’s not really about me. It’s not about being famous or that people know my name or that they think I am amazing. It’s about living a life here on this earth that will bring glory not to me… but to God in heaven. “In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:16

It does not say… … “that they may see your good deeds and praise you, compliment you, give you an award, think you are awesome, love you, pay you more money, make you famous, or fill it in with whatever you are longing for to try to feel better about yourself…”

It’s clear as I read the scriptures but it’s still easy to confuse things in my head and in my heart. In the end, our lives are just a mist as the scripture talks about in James. Our life on this earth is just a ‘blip’ in the grand scheme of things. I want to make it count, I want to make a difference and I don’t think that’s wrong. But I pray that it can be so that God will be glorified and that ultimately it’s all just to help tell His greater story. If my goal is to follow in the footsteps of Jesus… what better example was he of a man of great humility who did not seek fame or fortune or recognition – but instead, he always gave the glory to God and made it clear that he was here on this earth to do the will of his father, not his own will.

And so… maybe it’s not so much that people remember me or what I did… but rather because of my life they were able to see God, know Him and have their lives changed for eternity. I am not the main character in this story… I am just a supporting actor… or maybe more realistically just an ‘extra’ in this grand story God is telling.

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August 11, 2015 - 3:29 am

Steve Hilbig - Venessa your making a difference. You walk with God inspires me. Steve